CW: this post, unlike my others, is not about hair related topics. It brings up some emotionally heavy topics but I highly recommend reading if you are one of the following: white, able bodied, cisgender (identify with the gender you were assigned at birth), straight, not apart of an actively hated religious group, etc. any ONE of these categories. So, the topic is HEAVY today, but is important and something I have happen, and others have happen, and I discuss relatively often with other marginalized folks in my life. It’s forms of boundary breaking that have become easier it’s the age of the internet, and if you haven’t experienced it, you’re probably guilty of doing it. It comes in many forms - so let’s dive in. I am a very open and vulnerable person on the internet, and this leads people to a few different things: it’s okay to use me as a therapist; that I will discuss any traumatic event happening to the LGBTQ community; that I have never ending amounts of energy to educate. N...
Tools and Tips for Newbies I want to start off by saying that tools are very personal. I don’t think there’s one right answer, and you’ll have to kind of figure out what works for YOU, but I do still have thoughts and ideas on 1. What I prefer; 2. Some brands that are ultimately across the board the best; and 3. Things to look for when choosing a product. Also, I'm sorry this isn’t just some straightforward list. My brain just doesn’t work that way, and personally I like knowing the WHY of things. Combs - The first salon I worked at made everyone have the same brand blowdryer, certain combs, the same round brushes, etc. I hated the blowdryer - it was big and clunky, and it turns out the owner’s wife was a rep for the company. However, the combs are the same combs I still use ten years later (in fact like most of them are the SAME EXACT coms. Because there’s nothing wrong with them. They’ve lasted. As far as combs go, I 100% recommend YS Parks. Yeah, they’re pricey - b...