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How to Stop Breaking Boundaries in Inboxes

 CW: this post, unlike my others, is not about hair related topics. It brings up some emotionally heavy topics but I highly recommend reading if you are one of the following: white, able bodied, cisgender (identify with the gender you were assigned at birth), straight, not apart of an actively hated religious group, etc. any ONE of these categories. So, the topic is HEAVY today, but is important and something I have happen, and others have happen, and I discuss relatively often with other marginalized folks in my life. It’s forms of boundary breaking that have become easier it’s the age of the internet, and if you haven’t experienced it, you’re probably guilty of doing it. It comes in many forms - so let’s dive in. I am a very open and vulnerable person on the internet, and this leads people to a few different things: it’s okay to use me as a therapist; that I will discuss any traumatic event happening to the LGBTQ community; that I have never ending amounts of energy to educate. N...